Derek Ramsay calls out Philmar and Andi; defends Pernilla
Derek: “I’m believing, Andi, you’re intent was to destroy Pern and hurt her.”
Derek Ramsay (left) on friend Pernilla Sjoo’s couple tattoo with Philmar Alipayo (middle photo): “Naiintindihan ko it’s a cultural difference because she’s not from here. But she’s willing to accept that and apologize for that… But the intent was not to hurt Andi. The intent was not to steal her husband. Her intent was not to betray Andi.” Andi Eigenmann (right photo) is the partner of Philmar.
PHOTO/S: Instagram
Kinastigo ng aktor na si Derek Ramsay ang surfer na si Phimar Alipayo at ang partner nitong si Andi Eigenmann kaugnay ng pagkakadawit ng Swedish marine photographer na si Pernilla Sjoö sa alitan ng magkarelasyon.
Malapit na magkaibigan sina Philmar at Pernilla.
Matalik ding kaibigan ni Derek si Pernilla.
Sina Philmar, Andi, at Pernilla ay pare-parehong nakabase sa lalawigan ng Siargao.
DEREK TO PHILMAR: “MAGPAKALALAKI KA.”
Sa video-call interview ni Derek na lumabas sa YouTube vlog ni Ogie Diaz na Ogie Diaz Showbiz Update kahapon, February 12, 2025, naglabas ng saloobin ang aktor sa nilikhang ingay ng problema nina Philmar at Andi.
Base sa tono ng pananalita ni Derek, malinaw na nagagalit siya sa pagsasapubliko ni Andi, sa pamamagitan ng social media, ng hindi nila pagkakaunawaan ni Philmar.
Nag-ugat ito sa “couple tattoo” nina Philmar at Pernilla.
Dahil dito, naba-bash nang husto si Pernilla na inaakusahan ng paninira sa relasyon nina Andi at Philmar.
Pernilla Sjoo and Philmar Alipayo’s “224” couple tattoo
Saad ni Derek: “I’m not trying to cause a fight between me, my family, Andi, and Philmar. Nandun lang ulit ako sa tama at sa mali.
“And I wish Philmar… excuse me for using this term, would have the balls to be a man. Magpakalalaki ka.
“Ayusin mo ang problema mo sa asawa mo. Unahin mo yan, tama ka diyan.
“Pero huwag mong bastusin yung taong tumulong sa yo, sa lahat ng problema mo. Ipagtanggol mo yung tao.
“Sabi mo, ‘OK na kami.’ Di ayusin mo, pakita mo na talaga okay.
“Ikaw okay ka na, di ba? Paano si Pern na umiiyak kasi puro paninira?”
Ang tinutukoy ni Derek ay ang post ni Philmar noong February 11, Martes, na nagsasabing nagkaayos na sila ni Andi pagkatapos lamang ng ilang araw.
PERNILLA SJOO CONTINUES TO GET BASHED
Bagamat nagkaayos na sina Philmar at Andi, tila naiwan naman sa ere si Pernilla dahil sa pambaba-bash ng netizens sa kanya.
Inalmahan ito ni Derek at ipinagtanggol ang kaibigan.
Tuluy-tuloy na pahayag ng aktor: “Gigising siya, yan na lang ang nababasa niya. Hindi siya makalabas ng pamamahay niya.
“We live in a world of bashers. It’s just like people love to bash, get the opportunity to bash.
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“Puwede mo sabihin, if you’re mentally strong like me, people can bash me, I don’t care. But not everybody is like me.
“And for me to talk to her [Pernilla] every day, and she’s crying and crying and crying and crying and crying.
“Oo, sinabi ko sa kanya, ‘Mali yung ginawa mo sa tattoo.’
“Pero naiintindihan ko it’s a cultural difference because she’s not from here. But she’s willing to accept that and apologize for that.
“Because the intent… okay, mali ka, she’s wrong, she says she’s wrong, she understands that.
“But the intent was not to hurt Andi. The intent was not to [steal] her husband.
“Her intent was not to betray Andi.”
DEREK QUESTIONS ANDI’S INTENT
Direkta ring kinuwestiyon ni Derek ang intensiyon ni Andi sa pagpu-post sa social media ng hindi nila pagkakaunawaan ni Philmar kalakip ang larawan ng couple tattoo nina Pernilla at Philmar.
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Dahil sa post na ito ni Andi ay na-bash, hindi lamang si Philmar kundi lalo na si Pernilla.
Ayon kay Derek: “Philmar runs to Pern, runs to Pern. It’s not Pern running to Philmar.
“Again, if they have problems… in every relationship, we all have problems, even my wife and I have problems, but we don’t post it out in public.
“You bashers, I wish you take time to understand thay you can really destroy someone.”
Tanong ni Derek kay Andi: “And for me, sorry Andi, what was your intent with all of this?
“Cause right now, I’m believing, Andi, your intent was to destroy Pern and hurt her. An eye for an eye, kumbaga.
“Kung nasaktan ka, and I get it you’re hurt. You were wronged, I agree.
“You were wronged but not just by Pern. I think Philmar plays a bigger role in that wrong, as a man.
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“Because bilang isang lalaki, kung ako nasa sapatos niya at meron akong best friend na babae at sinabihan ako ng best friend ka na babae, ‘Magpa-tattoo tayo, ganito-ganito.’
“E, hindi ko gagawin yun out of respect to my wife, kahit may problema kami.
“Pambabastos na yon sa asawa ko, di ba? Pilipino tayo,” sabi pa ng Filipino-British actor.
Andi Eigenmann and Philmar Alipayo
Photo/s: @andieigengirl on Instagram
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Idiniin ni Derek na wala umanong masamang intensiyon si Pernilla sa pagpapa-couple tattoo nila ni Philmar.
Bagamat na-realize daw nito kalaunan na mali ang kanyang ginawa dahil magkaiba ang ating kultura.
Isiniwalat din ni Derek na nakipag-ugnayan daw si Pernilla kina Andi at Philmar upang ayusin ang nilikhang isyu ng kanyang aksyon.
Aniya: “And again, I stress, Pern realizes her mistake here.
“Even if it’s a cultural difference, she understands that she was wrong.
“And she wanted to talk, she messaged, she reached out [to Andi].
“She also messaged Philmar.
“Siya pa yung nakiusap kay Philmar, ‘Please, you have to make a statement about this.’
“Imagine mo, your so-called best friend, siya pa, yung babae pa ang nag-reach out sa yo, Philmar, para gumawa ng statement.
“And ang sinabi mo, ‘I know.’ Yun lang?”
Ngayong nagkaayos na sina Philmar at Andi, tila naiwan naman daw sa ere si Pernilla na naging tampulan ng batikos mula sa netizens.
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Sabi ni Derek, “And ang sasabihin mo, pare, is ‘OK na kami. This should all have been handled in private. Sana Ok na rin kayo.’
“Wow! Inumpisahan niyo to tapos biglang ganun na lang?”